Cash for Teeth: The Legend of the Tooth Fairy (2024)

Cash for Teeth: The Legend of the Tooth Fairy (1)

As an anthropologist and science writer with a background in archaeology, Kristina Killgrove is used to dealing with teeth and bones. But even she wasn't prepared for the sight of her 7-year-old daughter extracting her own upper right central incisor in an effort to cash it in. "I was initially inspired to track down the source of the tooth fairy legend when my older daughter lost her first tooth," Killgrove, who explored the legend in a 2016 piece for "Forbes," says by email. "She knew the tooth fairy was not real, but wanted to know when and why the story began."

Even if you aren't familiar with the tooth fairy's origin story, you've likely heard of her or encountered a kid like Killgrove's daughter who's perhaps a little overly excited to earn some dough. The folklore dictates that when a child loses a baby tooth, they should place it under their pillow at night and when they awake the next morning, they'll find their lost tooth has been replaced with a small amount of money, courtesy of a magical, seemingly enamel-obsessed sprite.

Unlike Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny, the tooth fairy has a somewhat enigmatic history. "I was surprised that the tooth fairy is a comparatively new legend," Killgrove says. "She started to take off with the boomer generation getting paid for their teeth, and was cemented in encyclopedias and the media with Gen X." And while other childhood characters typically have roots in religious traditions, Killgrove says "the secular tooth fairy is really a modern invention!"

So, who is this mysterious mythical creature and why is she so dead set on swapping baby teeth for cash? "Some have suggested that the story of the tooth fairy dates back to Norse traditions from the 13th century, when it became a tradition for a 'tooth fee' to be given to a child when they lost their first baby tooth," says Dr. Sal Colombo, DMD, of The Little Royals Dentistry for Kids in Jupiter, Florida, in an email interview. "The more modern tooth fairy as we know it was first referenced in an editorial from the Chicago Daily Tribune in 1908, which at that time valued the tooth fairy's contribution at 5 cents [compared to an average approaching $4 a tooth today]."

While Killgrove pegs the popularity of the tooth fairy to the childhood of the boomers and Colombo dates the character's birth back to the 1200s, writer and publisher Michael Hingston explained in his 2014 piece for Salon, that the legend really took off in the 1970s when a woman named Rosemary Wells took it upon herself to thoroughly research and report on the tooth fairy's saga.

"Dr. Wells was a professor teaching scientific writing at Northwestern University's dental school in the 1970s, when she realized there was little information about the origin of the tooth fairy legend," Killgrove says. "She worked on tracking down the origin and surveyed Americans on their tooth fairy practices for 20 years, before starting a small museum in her home dedicated to the tooth fairy. I came across her work as well as Tad Tuleja's in searching for the tooth fairy in the field of folklore studies."

"I love when people accidentally become world experts on something, and Rosemary Wells is a great example of this," Hingston said. "She asked a simple question, followed her curiosity, and ended up with a private museum in her home dedicated to the tooth fairy. How do you not root for that?"

As Hingston writes, the tooth fairy is a relatively recent creation but "rituals surrounding tooth loss date back much further than that." He points out that every single recorded human culture has some sort of traditional practice centered around the disposal of lost baby teeth, and researcher B. R. Townend broke down the various rituals in "The Non-therapeutic Extraction of Teeth and Its Relation to the Ritual Disposal of Shed Deciduous Teeth" in the British Dental Journal in 1963. As described in "The Tales Teeth Tell" by Tanya M. Smith, Townend said that cultures tend to do one of nine things: throw the tooth into the sun, into fire, between the legs, onto or over the roof of the house, place it in a mouse hole, bury it, hide it, place it in a tree or on a wall, or have the mother, child or an animal swallow it.

Americans, however, spun the legend in a unique way, blending and augmenting existing traditions to result in a benevolent fairy who rewards the dental milestone with money. And as Hingston points out, the tooth fairy's star rose at a time when Disney was introducing kind and cuddly characters that are perfectly in line with the tooth fairy's sweet and supernatural image.

Advertisem*nt

Talking to Kids

If you're a parent and unsure of how to handle the tooth fairy topic with your young tot, Colombo has a suggestion. "We encourage parents to call tooth fairy hotlines for the first tooth lost as well as remind them to put the tooth under the pillow so the tooth fairy can work their magic," he says. And yes, Googling "tooth fairy hotlines" does turn up all sorts of helpful results, including apps and local dentist's office voice mailboxes. And if you're curious how much the tooth fairy is doling out nowadays, researchers in 2013 claimed the national average to be $3.70 per tooth, up 23 percent from 2012 and a whopping 42 percent from 2011. But if you're a freaked out and frugal parent in 2020, you can breathe a sigh of relief: A 2018 study found that the national average dipped back down to $3.70, so despite the impact of inflation, it appears even the tooth fairy has her monetary limits.

And if you're wondering whether it's time to break the news to your kid that you're the one responsible for that under-the-pillow cash reward, you can relax. "We don't have a timeline to discuss when we stop talking about the tooth fairy," Colombo says. "At our office, we love to encourage kids young and old to think of the tooth fairy — it's positive reinforcement and it helps to give the children something to look forward to during a part of their lives when things are changing (for the better!). We are pediatric dentists and we revel in the mythology and the fun, and whether you are 5 and losing your first tooth or 12 and losing your last baby tooth, it's all part of the experience."

Advertisem*nt

Now That's a Mouthful

Most kids have a full set of 20 baby teeth by the time they're 3 years old and they start to lose these teeth by the time they're 5 or 6, making room for about 32 adult teeth. Most of these grown-up teeth come in by the time kids are 12-14, but the last four — the wisdom teeth — usually pop up between the ages of 17 and 21.

Cash for Teeth: The Legend of the Tooth Fairy (2024)

FAQs

How do you answer the question about the tooth fairy? ›

Follow Your Child's Lead

A great way to determine the answer is to respond, "Why do you ask?" or "What do you think?" If he or she seems ready for the truth, give it to them. However, if they want to hold on to the story a bit longer, simply say, "Well, I absolutely believe in the magic of the tooth fairy!"

Is the tooth fairy real yes or no answer? ›

They point out that there is no scientific evidence to support the existence of the tooth fairy. Additionally, some parents admit to playing the role of the tooth fairy themselves, further fueling doubts about its reality.

What does the tooth fairy do with the teeth answer? ›

Other versions of the folklore say she builds castles with the teeth, she crushes and makes fairy dust with the teeth that are not so clean, she places teeth in the sky so they shine as brightly as stars, and that she makes them into pretty jewellery which she gives out as gifts.

How much money is the tooth fairy supposed to give you? ›

In the United States, the average amount given to the tooth fairy ranges from $1 to $5 per tooth. In some bigger cities, it's not uncommon for parents to give tooth fairy payouts even more than that. Of course, it's ultimately up to you to decide the right amount for your child.

Is The Tooth Fairy Real or is it your parents? ›

The tooth fairy may not be real, but it's still a fun way to talk to your kids about their oral health. Lombard dentist, Dr. Brett Blacher likes to make pediatric dentistry fun for kids and is always ready to encourage preventative dentistry to all his patients, young and old.

Is 11 too old to believe in Tooth Fairy? ›

"There is no such thing as being too old to believe in Santa, the Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy," Kelman tells Yahoo Life. "Letting kids figure it out on their own is preferable to parents breaking the news to them.

What age does tooth fairy stop coming? ›

The Tooth Fairy stops visiting children at different ages. Some may keep the tradition until all baby teeth are gone, but others think 12 years is a little too old to continue the game. One thing is for sure: children grow up too fast, so our two cents: keep the tradition alive as long as you can.

What age do kids find out tooth fairy is not real? ›

Consider a child's age

Children typically start to question whether the tooth fairy is real between the ages of 4 and 7.

Can my child call the tooth fairy? ›

Your child can let the tooth fairy know that they lost a tooth. Your child can also hear her tip of the month or leave her a message. The call is free.

Will the Tooth Fairy still come if I lost my tooth? ›

But don't worry, even if you can't find your tooth once it falls out, she will still visit.

Does the Tooth Fairy take the tooth and leave money? ›

Then, while they're asleep, the tooth fairy visits to collect the lost tooth and, in return, leaves money or another gift behind. This tradition aids in making the transition of losing baby teeth less daunting for kids, a nice reward to look forward to after the courage of parting ways with a tooth!

Why does the Tooth Fairy leave money? ›

So, why does the tooth fairy leave money under the pillow? The idea of exchanging a tooth for coins originated in Scandinavia. Vikings believed teeth to be a good luck charm in battle, wearing them on necklaces. When a child lost a tooth, adults would actually pay their children for a lost tooth.

Is $20 too much for Tooth Fairy? ›

$20 for a first tooth has become popular across the country, with some parents going well beyond that to try to earn the crown for the most magical under-the-pillow offerings.

How much does the Tooth Fairy pay for a tooth in 2024? ›

Average Tooth Fairy payout per lost tooth

The line is blue and is shaded transparent blue underneath, showing a range of $1.60 in 2001 up to a high of $6.23 in 2023 and back down to $5.84 in 2024. For the first time since 2019, the tooth fairy is paying less for lost teeth than the year before.

What to do when the Tooth Fairy has no money? ›

If you have some time to prepare (those teeth can be wiggly for quite a while) save up a secret stash of small, inexpensive toys, sticker sheets, school supplies, and Dollar Store trinkets. While not free, these inexpensive gifts can be more special than cash because they're from the Tooth Fairy.

What to do when your child questions the Tooth Fairy? ›

Before the age of six, they are still young to distinguish fantasy from reality. Hence, when they come to you looking for answers, if you can tell your child still wants to believe the fairy tales, do not ruin the fun for them. Simply ask them what they think and let them tell you what they hope to hear from you.

How do you explain why the Tooth Fairy didn't come? ›

The dew was too heavy. Her wings got wet, and she couldn't fly. The Tooth Fairy was on vacation, and the substitute Tooth Fairy didn't know what she was doing. She couldn't get to your pillow due to your messy room.

How do you explain Tooth Fairy forgot? ›

Tell them that the Tooth Fairy takes one day off a week

If the Tooth Fairy forgot to come collect, then tell your little one that everyone needs a day off. Even if they were slightly disappointed, just let them know that the day the Fairy chooses is always random and it just means they will come the next day.

What do you write in a Tooth Fairy note? ›

Your note could talk about:
  1. The importance of oral hygiene. Remind your child to brush their teeth twice a day. ...
  2. The circ*mstances around losing the tooth. Did your child tie it to the doorknob? ...
  3. The answers to their tooth fairy questions.
Jan 9, 2023

Top Articles
Latest Posts
Article information

Author: Rubie Ullrich

Last Updated:

Views: 5870

Rating: 4.1 / 5 (72 voted)

Reviews: 87% of readers found this page helpful

Author information

Name: Rubie Ullrich

Birthday: 1998-02-02

Address: 743 Stoltenberg Center, Genovevaville, NJ 59925-3119

Phone: +2202978377583

Job: Administration Engineer

Hobby: Surfing, Sailing, Listening to music, Web surfing, Kitesurfing, Geocaching, Backpacking

Introduction: My name is Rubie Ullrich, I am a enthusiastic, perfect, tender, vivacious, talented, famous, delightful person who loves writing and wants to share my knowledge and understanding with you.